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      <image:caption>Of course, arguments are the main reason for people seeking help with their relationship, but why do we argue……?</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Relationship Warning - So the reason this blog post comes with a WARNING … if we allow our relationship with our partners to go unattended for too long. . . this has the potential to cause problems that then turn into serious issues that, ironically, then require us to pay them attention.  It is possible to reintroduce our relationship back into our lives again but sometimes this attempt may come to late.</image:title>
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      <image:caption>A question I often consider when working with a couple is. . . “How much room is there for this couple’s relationship?”</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>An insight into things that might be influencing how you both are getting on.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Relationship patterns……. - This area of relationships is vast and I’m only able to scratch the surface.  Another contributing factor here, is how unique the subject is. . . every relationship will have its own personal set of patterns.</image:title>
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      <image:caption>All relationships are subject to periods of harmony and periods of difficulty.  Our influence over that harmony or discord is continual…i.e. the effort needed, never stops.  If it does, relationships have a tendency to go off on their own accord, and this usually introduces negative effects.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The area of couple’s communication is such a biggie that a place to start can be hard to find.  Below is a great exercise that I use often with clients.  This exercise has links to the patterns/habits we easily fall into, as a couple.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>We easily forget that a relationship is a blend of two people and their collective personalities. The way our traits, approaches or personality styles mix together is how our relationships are defined.</image:caption>
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